New Moon Messages- Create Stability
Stability as Peace, as Foundation, as Strength
Im a little tardy with sharing my New Moon messages with you all, but these messages were too good not to share, so here we are!
This month, I got some amazing messages and as I try to connect them all into a singular theme, the word STABILITY keeps bouncing in my mind and heart.
STABILITY IN THE HOME
While going through the pains of divorce and all the grief associated, I have had this emotional detachment from my home. I see it as a safe space away from abuse and harm, but little more than that. I haven’t committed an emotional anchor to my home because it may be taken from under me at any moment. It feels borrowed and temporary.
These messages are reminding me to create and fight for a tie to be made in my home. And the concept of home becomes nuanced in this moment of reflection. It isn’t just these four walls. It is also my body, my garden, my neighborhood, my mental peace, my chosen family … all of these things are HOME. They all deserve attention, care, and commitment because they are all sacred spaces that hold my heart and spirit. Building a home that encompasses these things is how one can stay grounded during upheaval.
STABILITY IN THE MIND
This month, I have been getting so many messages about meditation as a means of creating peace in my mind and spirit. I personally find meditation boring as hell. I would almost rather do just about anything else! Something I had not considered is how creating mental peace leads to stability. That version of stability actually frees up energy. I have never considered how much energy is required to stay sane, grounded, and just get from day to day, when my mental peace is fractured and/or disrupted. But now that my attention is on it…. Listen, I am not fucking around anymore. I am being intentional about creating mental peace. I am being intentional about being unafraid of being alone, doing things alone, and sitting with myself.
STABILITY AS STRENGTH
I have been having messages about releasing control for months and months and months. And I now finally get it. The message isn’t about releasing perfectionism, limiting beliefs, and all that… I mean, it is, but there’s so much more. It’s about releasing shit that is out of your control and thoughts, things, actions, people who don’t serve your highest good. Releasing control of all of those things frees up energy to ground deeper into stability as a source of strength!
Imagine mountains. Winds, storms, animals, disasters… and yet, they stand. They remain grounded and strong. I want to embody that strength. A strength rooted in stability as opposed to thriving in a survival mindset, where my nervous system is triggered and I am constantly scrambling and hustling. Imagine the strength that comes from stability, resolve, peace, and rest. Imagine what you can do or change within yourself and the world at large when your strength comes from peace and stability.
How can you redefine strength in a way that is rooted in peace, compassion, healing, and empathy to empower others?
How can you create ceremony and space for mental stability?
How can you think of home as not only a physical place, but a metaphor for where anything can be safely housed?
What are you willing to release and sacrifice to make space for stability?
I thought of how you find meditation boring and how you love spend time on your garden which has to be meditative! For me meditation is a ceremony and space for mental stability but it can take different forms and I don’t think that there is a set way to mediate. Some days it is a guided meditation with headphones and incense burning, other days it is a walk or spending time in the garden with intention and sometimes it is making a list and thinking about it.
I have recently gone through a amicable divorce and it was tough so I feel for you going through a tough one 💜
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